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The Virgo man

Some of the most admirable human qualities make their appearance in the Virgo man. One of these is his desire to be of service. He’s generous if you need support, advice, or material assistance. Always reasonable, he’ll draw you out about your difficulties, and he loves to offer the wisdom of his own experience. Give him a problem and he’ll attack it like a chess game, and usually his detached insights are sharp and sound. There’s a sensible, sane feeling about this man.

The Virgo man rarely pretends to be anything other than himself. Also, this man will actually talk to you as an equal. On the other hand, his self-control and coolness can be irritating and even hurtful. He may hang up his coat carefully before he kisses you, because order must come first. Sometimes he’s horribly socially sensitive, and won’t show affection in public because “someone” might notice that he actually has passions. If he’s an extreme type, everything might be scheduled, including sex. If this starts getting to you, remember that it isn’t easy to be a Virgo man in our culture.

This sign is sensitive and vulnerable, and Virgo men often struggle to be tough, cool and in control. Virgos hate having their privacy invaded without an invitation (and that means emotional as well as physical). If you want to live comfortably with such firm boundaries, you need a sense of humour and some boundaries of your own. It’s not really about keeping you out. It’s about keeping his own emotions in.

What makes this complex and sometimes insufferable temperament loveable is that the Virgo man, if you tell him the truth calmly and clearly, will always listen. It’s one of his most endearing qualities. If he’s hurt you or been oblivious to your feelings, try articulating it. Quietly. He’ll usually listen, apologise and try to do something about it. If you scream and shout or ooze black atmospheres, he’ll withdraw so fast that you’ll think you’ve moved to Antarctica. If you’re the really combustible type, try a more resilient and less highly strung sign.

This man simply can’t take angry explosions and tempestuous scenes, or long weeping sessions with lots of soggy handkerchiefs. You’ll often see the Virgo man fidgeting, biting his fingernails, folding his serviette into tiny fanlike shapes, shredding his lettuce, and doing other little things that betray the highly strung nervous system of this sign. He also tends to somatise his inner tensions, so be prepared to hear about the headaches, skin rashes, muscle tics, stomach upsets, and aching joints.

Virgos can be hypochondriacs when they’re stressed out. Since the Virgo man will usually overwork himself anyway, emotional pressure doesn’t help. He needs lots of rest, play and nature to heal him. Usually he can’t be bothered to make time for all that, since that inevitable list always has “work” at the top. So the onus falls on you to cajole, reason or drag him to a place where, after his initial whining, he might even discover that it’s quite pleasant to sit in the sun and do nothing.

For all these reasons, the Virgo man isn’t always every person’s dream of the perfect mate. He has a sensitive, finely tuned and complex nature. He’s rarely aggressive, and he lets difficulties nag and nag inside before he takes direct action. He isn’t really a Don Juan, although there are some fairly good imitation Don Juans floating about in the form of terribly insecure Virgo men trying to pretend to be Ariens or Sagittarians.

Trust and good communication are necessary for him to show the more mystical, intuitive, imaginative side of himself, and his delightfully ironic sense of humor won’t emerge unless he knows he’s in attentive company. Hopefully you didn’t choose him to provide you with security, for if so, you’re making a sad mistake. Although he’s earthy and realistic, he’s not interested in playing Sugar Daddy. He’s too fluid and changeable and mercurial to tolerate being someone else’s Rock of Gibraltar.

Appreciate his intelligence, his wit, his cynical wisdom, his craftsmanship, his shrewdness, his kindness, his sensitivity and his integrity. For those who respect intelligence, real dyed-in-the-soul refinement and grace, and the mysterious charisma of inner solitude, the Virgo man makes those more flamboyant types seem pretty boorish in comparison.

Astrological love and sex profile

Ascendant in Sagittarius

For you, love is an opportunity for endless sport, mirth and enjoyment, to be taken in generous helpings and with gusto.

It is not the method or technique of loving that turns you on as much as the sheer joy of mutual participation with your partner.

Remember, you probably have much more stamina than most, so you may inadvertently wear your partner out with your abundant energy. Find out just what your lover likes and dislikes, so that you do not stray into forbidden territory unintentionally.

Sun in Virgo

Of all the Sun signs, Virgo is the most adept at the care and feeding of a lover. You will go to great lengths to find out exactly what pleases your partner and spend a lot of effort to provide it.

You also put a high value on a lover who is aware of what pleases you. You must, however, make a particular attempt to let your lover know just what makes you happy, because other people are not likely to be as observant as you.

You are more comfortable with a long-term affair that gives you plenty of time to structure the relationship.

Giving and receiving gifts, particularly hand-made presents, may be a very potent expression of love for you. But do not be disappointed if your lover does not appreciate your gifts as much as you do. Instead, find out the channel of communication that your partner treasures most and direct your love energies there.

Sun in the Tenth House

Probably you will find people to become personally involved with at your place of work rather than at a social gathering.

Whether or not you deserve it, you probably have quite a reputation as a good lover, because others tend to believe only the best that they hear about you.

It would be wise to keep weeknights for yourself, reserving weekends and holidays for entertaining a lover; then you can put your full self into it. Otherwise you may find that your business life is always in conflict with your love life, and both areas suffer.

Moon in Virgo

You have very specific standards about what you want in a lover, and you tend to be cautious in selecting one.

Also you are particular about the surroundings when you make love, for you are not comfortable just anywhere or at any time.

Try not to be too possessive of your partner or, if you must be, find someone who will be absolutely faithful to you.

You are very good at helping your partner and others straighten out personal problems, and you give down-to-earth advice on how they can better fulfill themselves.

Moon in the Ninth House

You gravitate toward people with whom you have a lot in common philosophically and spiritually.

In the philosophical realm you are an explorer, and you thrive on a love relationship that allows you to broaden your horizons. You will be most drawn to a lover who can open your mind as well as gratify your body.

With the right lover, you are willing to make changes in yourself and your lifestyle, if that will further the growth of your personality and enrich your life.

For that reason, you are best off with an adventurous partner who will respond to your initiative and be ready to explore new areas.

Venus in Virgo

You are likely to be most comfortable with a familiar lover who knows your habits and desires very well. In order to enjoy love most fully, your partner must be completely aware of your likes and dislikes. Do not let antiquated moral taboos keep you from living up to your love potential.

You and your lover can find pleasure in writing down your fantasies in detail and exchanging them. This will make your lovemaking, in its own way, a dream come true.

Venus in the Tenth House

You may be particularly drawn to individuals who are well-known or who are outstanding in their professional field.
However, you must be careful to make a distinction between your partner’s personal needs and emotions and his or her achievements or reputation.

You are anxious to be well thought of also, and you may be quite successful in building a professional reputation. But you could run into the same problem in reverse – your partner will expect you to live up to your external image rather than just being yourself.

If your lover is also involved in your professional life, the affair can become a real tangle of crossed wires and ulterior motives. Therefore it is best to insulate your private life from your own and your partner’s public endeavors.

Mars in Virgo

You are a very careful, sensitive lover who gives much thought to making sure that the atmosphere and setting for love are just right.

In general you prefer a well-appointed room with all the accouterments so that you are in control of the overall situation and can concentrate on the more delicate details of intimacy.

Your most outstanding characteristic is attentiveness to the myriad particulars of sex – all the tiny nuances that make it an endlessly varied pursuit. But take care to keep spontaneity alive!

Mars in the Ninth House

You may have developed a rather externalized approach to sexuality in which you decide on your moves and expectations ahead of time; then physical fulfillment depends upon each partner properly playing a predetermined role.

You may become a connoisseur of special sexual roles, developing a number of fairly well- defined relationships through which you can express myriad forms of sexual communication.

AstroText Love – Short Edition
for Jeff Hess (male)
born on 15 Sep 1955 local time 12:10 pm
in Marietta, OH (US) U.T. 17:10
81w27, 39n25 sid. time 11:19:45

Planetary positions

planet sign degree house motion
Sun Virgo 22°04’50 10 direct
Moon Virgo 15°12’28 09 direct
Mercury Libra 18°21’18 10/11 direct

Mercury is technically near the end of house 10 and is interpreted in house 11.

Venus Virgo 25°58’53 10 direct
Mars Virgo 12°16’45 09 direct
Jupiter Leo 20°11’00 09 direct
Saturn Scorpio 17°07’00 12 direct
Uranus Leo 01°05’22 08 direct
Neptune Libra 26°41’00 11 direct
Pluto Leo 27°18’24 09 direct
True Node Sagittarius 21°56’02 01 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)

Ascendant Sagittarius 03°40’10
2nd House Capricorn 05°36’00
3rd House Aquarius 12°36’50
Imum Coeli Pisces 19°03’15
5th House Aries 19°20’21
6th House Taurus 13°23’26
Descendant Gemini 03°40’10
8th House Cancer 05°36’00
9th House Leo 12°36’50
Medium Coeli Virgo 19°03’15
11th House Libra 19°20’21
12th House Scorpio 13°23’26

Major aspects

Sun Conjunction Moon 6°52
Sun Conjunction Venus 3°54
Sun Sextile Saturn 4°58
Moon Conjunction Mars 2°56
Moon Sextile Saturn 1°55
Mercury Sextile Jupiter 1°50
Venus Sextile Uranus 5°06
Mars Sextile Saturn 4°50
Jupiter Square Saturn 3°04
Uranus Square Neptune 4°24
Uranus Trine Ascendant 2°35
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°37

Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle).